Divorce may be best option for some New York couples

Posted By Michael R. Varble & Associates, P.C. || 7-Sep-2012

Everyone makes mistakes -- some are just bigger than others. There are times when two people who thought they could spend the rest of their lives together discover that just isn't possible and find they want a divorce. New York couples who find themselves in this position may be better off apart.

Sometimes, couples need to satisfy themselves that they have tried everything to stay together. After all, no one likes to give up without giving it their all. However, there are a lot of couples who end up getting along better after a divorce for various reasons. People feel free to pursue dreams they couldn't when they were married, their health can improve, they become better parents --these are only some of the positive effects that can result when couples review their situation rationally. They may realize that divorce is the best decision for each of them, as individuals and as a couple.

Making the mutual decision to divorce is only the first step. The task of separating two lives can be daunting and even frustrating at times. However, if a couple resolves to be amicable and work together, the process can be managed successfully. That isn't to say that there won't be an emotion roller coaster at times, but if the parties agree to be civil to each other, it can be done. If the couple has children, resolving to be amicable through the divorce process may help them adjust more easily.

In order to give a family the best chance of an amicable divorce, couples need to be aware of the New York family laws. There are multiple issues that will need to be dealt with, and identifying those issues and dealing them may require the help of an experienced legal hand.

The more issues that the couple can deal with amicably outside of a courtroom, the better. However, if there is an issue that the couple can't readily agree on, the courts are there to help. Instead of continuing to fight over those issues, it may make things easier to agree to abide by a judge's decision.

Source: Forbes, "The Seven Virtues of Divorce," David DiSalvo, Aug. 23, 2012

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